Kinky women in San Diego

spoiled princess exploring her dom side ♡ into praise, teasing, attention, control, pretty things, and watching good boys behave for me. soft when deserved, mean when earned. i like clingy devotion, gifts, late night chats, obedience, and being treated like the pretty distraction i am. still exploring, but definitely discovering i enjoy being worshipped 🤭

I AM AN EXPERIENCED DOMINANT MISTRESS WITH A DEEP APPRECIATION FOR (FlNDOM) AND A WIDE RANGE OF BDSM DYNAMICS AND FETISHES. I VALUE DISCIPLINE, TRUST, RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, AND THE POWER EXCHANGE THAT FORMS THE FOUNDATION OF A GENUINE D/S RELATIONSHIP.

Looking for that special person that helps discover the secrets to total relaxation. I love making good vibes and memories filled with great satisfaction. I offer great meetup fun, naughty funs and great massage sessions including nuru

30 year old business woman building a legacy for herself, In my external world I must be a strong dominant business woman that shows no emotions, so ddlg has been my outlet. I love being a soft silly little girl and dressing up and just being myself.

I am ready to open my heart again. I'm looking for an honest, sincere man who values kindness and companionship. Someone who enjoys quiet conversations over tea, sharing laughs, and building a gentle, trusting relationship. If you are looking for a genuine romantic man

Hello! I'm a 26 year old Latina/Italian submissive exploring the thrilling world of kink. I’m passionate about BDSM, role-playing, pet play] and eager to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of power exchange.

I’m very naughty sub and looking for a good dom to complete me. I’m very naughty and loved to be pleased and satisfied every single moment we spend together. I think I enjoy all kind of kinky activities.

I’m bi : ) I want a master. I like sex parties and masturbation control. I like being restrained. I want you to dress me and decide if i get to wear underwear. I want to be spanked and punished.

I dream of meeting a man who is strong, kind and protective; someone who can make me feel safe, loved, and cherished. A man who values tenderness, loyalty, and ***.

Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.

**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.

looking for a sexy open minded down to earth women I can vibe and have some fun with either with just myself or/and if your open to it including my boyfriend in the fun if not then that’s fine too ☺️😉 IM INTERESTED IN COUPLES OR FEMALES ONLY NO SINGLE MEN !

*** I don’t see a way to delete my kinky ad from this am but: unstuck now. thank you to the beautiful person who rescued me & thank you so much to everyone who asked if I was ok ❤️🙏🏼 *** professionally trained The***utic Massage Therapist, offering a special low rate today (9/11, and thru the weekend, for an hour full body massage or 90 mins, with oil, about half what I normally charge whenever I do massage on the side, Swedish or Deep Tissue. *AMTA member, will go any where in San Diego for only a small travel fee, if more than 14 miles from me. *no married men, unless practicing ENM & partner is in the know- will possibly consider, but looking for LTR, so most likely, not. *empty use, without care or friendship is something I avoid- women, why in the world would we be out here doing that? it was not like this 20+ years ago, when I was dating as an 18-25 yr old woman, trust me. *Redheads are my fav, which is partly why I plan on getting a tattoo on my chest, of an orange cat holding a sunflower or Lily… prefer someone with over 5 inches & circumcised no total nsa, or hookups no, no, no maga, please This is the only profile I can access now. Multiple profiles have stemmed from getting frustrated w my experience, deleting the app and then not being able to get back in, and password resets not being sent when requested… “Mad World” By Tears for ***s in the 1980s & we’re in it. The WAY men EXPECT a woman to be here not for free use- but empty use… are you kidding me??? Free use: partner has access to me, whenever- but key word is PARTNER also: Dom/Daddy/Master but Master isn’t a name I utter as a masochist to a sadist with potential for cruelty. Master, is the best/loved title and it means I belong to you… stop coming at me with lies & gas lighting and poor communication, and then acting like I’m crazy when I get super annoyed by that… If you want to treat a woman like a hooker- then go get a hooker. the sheer audacity of expecting empty use.. I love Drew C/ Drewsav but he messed up my whole world forgot him before, so maybe I can again. If you can’t take me to dinner, spoil me like a princess, and use me CONSISTENTLY like your wild, kinky sex toy.. then keep it moving. your lack of care is KiLLing me, smalls its 1 thing, that’s a major buzz kill to a naturally high drive craziest thing is when he wants empty use, And wants you to put yourself on a shelf to be exclusive while he goes out to play.. I have a high drive, and I need a consistent, loving Dom: let me be your passenger princess, lap princess.. but I won’t be a pillow princess very much of the time: I love to ride, get on my knees for you & 69, massage you, massage exchange, etc mild/fantasyscape CNC, GL, Mad foreplay, 69, Being tied up by you, DD/lg roleplay not taken to extreme… hit me up if you’re honest & you have good intentions & you’re a pretty boy who wants the absolute and utter devotion and adoration of a less attractive, loyal sub who will kiss the ground you walk on as long as you take care of her, and you really care… but please be prettier than me and don’t be spoiled, or too vain (I love to dish out compliments & praise tho)

mostly for chit chats and getting my ego inflated beyond repair. if your limits include femdom, pegging and women bossing you around, get out my dms. I get on here once a week maybe. I’ll message if you are interesting enough or gas me up. I’m kind of avoidant but if you are subby and hot I’m chasing you around forever.

I’m being open minded on here. I get lots of messages. I can’t view them all. Interested in CBT, I’m the goddess, so keep that in mind. If I like what I see I’ll reach out but your convo is what determines the interest.

I'm a Mixed-Media Artist who designs & creates artwork, apparel, etc. I'm working on a small book of poetry & artwork. I'm a private person by nature, only child, INFJ type personality. Aquarius...it's said we're bold & indrpendent, make great friends & lovers. Its true! I've been celebate a year now kinda by choice. (Supposed bf maybe was gay?? idk, denied me sex. So I endured that. Never again. I'm including this bcz it's highly relevant.) I believe in RECIPROCITY-it's a deal breaker for me. If I bring honesty & accountability to the table...then I'm deserving of that too. I'm STD free and test regularly. Safe sex takes priority. I've been described as "the most Sensual woman i ever met." and that's because I felt safe and there were rules obeyed mutually. I refuse to be rushed, would never rush anyone. It's been 7 yrs since I've felt a true connection and taken a lover. I know my worth, and I take pride in being selective & private. I love Nerds, Scientists, Designers, Engineers because intelligence is a HUGE turn on for me. I'm not here to be anyone's mother, but I can be a good girl, if you know what I'm alluding to. I'm not submissive, but w/ the right vibe- I just might. I'm what they call "A True Switch". 💋

My name is Beth or Bethie, I'm only really looking for chatting n maybe some online stuff, I'm into a lot, I love pink, sparkles, glitter and girly stuff. I love to cook and do art, and I'm a switch primary sub! Oh also I'm bi lol

I'm looking for local friends and play partners. If you can not physically get to me to play, please dont waste my time or yours, it's a no. I am looking for connections and bonds. To start ,friends with benefits. Eventually, I would love a long-term nonmonogamaus relationship. In my vanilla life, when at home, I enjoy cooking, playing video games, and mostly RPG PVE like dragon age or skyrim. When I'm out, I'm usually hanging out at Fiesta or any other place my best budy can go. My best buddy is my dog, Jade.

not single looking for friends to share the love - girlies always welcome men need approval not willing to travel too far, can host 🔥 no alcohol or hard ***

Hey there, I’m serene. Naturally dominant, confident, and a little dangerous. I like men who know their place, enjoy surrendering control, and aren’t afraid of a woman who expects obedience. I enjoy being in control and pushing my submissives’ limits within clearly established boundaries. If you’re into worship, consensual ***, teasing, and proving yourself to a woman who knows exactly what she wants, we might get along very well. Don’t tell me you’re submissive. Show me. IRL ***gies who like to be stomped on welcome. mommy needs a boob job💋xoxo not buying premium match me or I won’t see you🙄 Snapchat @sraw_brry

I’m a big mean Kidd trapped in a small unruly kids body, I’m a 4ft 8 in 90 lb menace that loves to raise hell and wreak havoc in pretty princess dresses

sweet, shy and naughty! just a little with a bratty side who loves being tamed and cherished 💕 looking for a LTR with a dominant daddy that knows how to balance being stern and taming my bratty side, while also nurturing and caring for my little side. i prefer older men (35-50) who like to take on the role of leading and providing both in and out of the bedroom. i prefer someone in San Diego, OC or Los Angeles! chat soon xx

5'10" Curvy, fun, kinky, recently divorced and looking to explore a new side of myself. Looking for someone to push my boundaries. 💋DM me something unique and fun to get my attention.

I am ready to open my heart again. I'm looking for an honest, sincere man who values kindness and companionship. Someone who enjoys quiet conversations over tea, sharing laughs, and building a gentle, trusting relationship. If you are looking for a genuine romantic man

Looking for that special person that helps discover the secrets to total relaxation. I love making good vibes and memories filled with great satisfaction. I offer great meetup fun, naughty funs and great massage sessions including nuru

I AM AN EXPERIENCED DOMINANT MISTRESS WITH A DEEP APPRECIATION FOR (FlNDOM) AND A WIDE RANGE OF BDSM DYNAMICS AND FETISHES. I VALUE DISCIPLINE, TRUST, RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, AND THE POWER EXCHANGE THAT FORMS THE FOUNDATION OF A GENUINE D/S RELATIONSHIP.

30 year old business woman building a legacy for herself, In my external world I must be a strong dominant business woman that shows no emotions, so ddlg has been my outlet. I love being a soft silly little girl and dressing up and just being myself.

I’m very naughty sub and looking for a good dom to complete me. I’m very naughty and loved to be pleased and satisfied every single moment we spend together. I think I enjoy all kind of kinky activities.

I dream of meeting a man who is strong, kind and protective; someone who can make me feel safe, loved, and cherished. A man who values tenderness, loyalty, and ***.

spoiled princess exploring her dom side ♡ into praise, teasing, attention, control, pretty things, and watching good boys behave for me. soft when deserved, mean when earned. i like clingy devotion, gifts, late night chats, obedience, and being treated like the pretty distraction i am. still exploring, but definitely discovering i enjoy being worshipped 🤭

I’m bi : ) I want a master. I like sex parties and masturbation control. I like being restrained. I want you to dress me and decide if i get to wear underwear. I want to be spanked and punished.

Hello! I'm a 26 year old Latina/Italian submissive exploring the thrilling world of kink. I’m passionate about BDSM, role-playing, pet play] and eager to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of power exchange.

Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.

**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.

I’m being open minded on here. I get lots of messages. I can’t view them all. Interested in CBT, I’m the goddess, so keep that in mind. If I like what I see I’ll reach out but your convo is what determines the interest.

I'm a Mixed-Media Artist who designs & creates artwork, apparel, etc. I'm working on a small book of poetry & artwork. I'm a private person by nature, only child, INFJ type personality. Aquarius...it's said we're bold & indrpendent, make great friends & lovers. Its true! I've been celebate a year now kinda by choice. (Supposed bf maybe was gay?? idk, denied me sex. So I endured that. Never again. I'm including this bcz it's highly relevant.) I believe in RECIPROCITY-it's a deal breaker for me. If I bring honesty & accountability to the table...then I'm deserving of that too. I'm STD free and test regularly. Safe sex takes priority. I've been described as "the most Sensual woman i ever met." and that's because I felt safe and there were rules obeyed mutually. I refuse to be rushed, would never rush anyone. It's been 7 yrs since I've felt a true connection and taken a lover. I know my worth, and I take pride in being selective & private. I love Nerds, Scientists, Designers, Engineers because intelligence is a HUGE turn on for me. I'm not here to be anyone's mother, but I can be a good girl, if you know what I'm alluding to. I'm not submissive, but w/ the right vibe- I just might. I'm what they call "A True Switch". 💋

My name is Beth or Bethie, I'm only really looking for chatting n maybe some online stuff, I'm into a lot, I love pink, sparkles, glitter and girly stuff. I love to cook and do art, and I'm a switch primary sub! Oh also I'm bi lol

looking for a sexy open minded down to earth women I can vibe and have some fun with either with just myself or/and if your open to it including my boyfriend in the fun if not then that’s fine too ☺️😉 IM INTERESTED IN COUPLES OR FEMALES ONLY NO SINGLE MEN !

Hey there, I’m serene. Naturally dominant, confident, and a little dangerous. I like men who know their place, enjoy surrendering control, and aren’t afraid of a woman who expects obedience. I enjoy being in control and pushing my submissives’ limits within clearly established boundaries. If you’re into worship, consensual ***, teasing, and proving yourself to a woman who knows exactly what she wants, we might get along very well. Don’t tell me you’re submissive. Show me. IRL ***gies who like to be stomped on welcome. mommy needs a boob job💋xoxo not buying premium match me or I won’t see you🙄 Snapchat @sraw_brry

Just a Gothicc Girl from the City of Angels living in San Diego... I'm not intentionally looking for a relationship right now but I am open to the possibility of more if the vibe is right with someone. What I am intentionally looking for is more queer friends who just want to have fun with no hidden agendas or drama. Does that exist? Lastly...l'm not interested in being your first time anything or your third to you and your partner.

Hi, You can call me Bluu, or Salem, I am a BlaXican/Indigenous woman, I have never interacted with the Kink community since I am young and only just over 21, Ive been aware of several kinks i have however im a brat and im not telling anyone my kinks unless they get it out of me lol IMPORTANT NOTES: - Incredibly bratty!!! KNOW WHAT YOUR GETTING YOURSELF INTO -NO WHITE PEOPLE!!! sorry just gotta get it out the way no hate, im just really not interested DO NOT try to change my mind -sorry boys, im not calling you daddy (Serious.) I am a very kinky person but ultimatley, its hard for my kink to come out when i dont feel fully. I am monogamous and would like to have he deepest connection with my partner/dom while also still remaining casual (

Just looking to meet new people, make friends, and see where the vibe goes. I’m pretty chill but shy at first. I like good conversation, gaming, anime, food, and traveling. I’m open-minded, definitely a bratty service sub 😇, and trying to step outside my comfort zone a little. 😊 I’m looking for a hunter, not prey. Don’t call yourself a hunter and then expect me to chase you. I will starve your ego every time.

I like to be a bully😈 and in charge Also love 💵💵 love someone who wants to financially support me

New to kink and exploring (more like lurking) around different apps & sites to meet like minded people and maybe make friends!! Im here specifically to pretty much learn about how these spaces function ✨ My practice is pretty closed and quite limited so going out to meet up is out the window, I'm not looking for a dom/daddy/owner, & random pet names or disrespect will not be tolerated Aaaand I'm pretty shy so forgive me if you do end up reaching out and the convo doesn't hold up Errrr no idea what to really put here since I never use dating apps lol...

I like someone who extremely submissive and would do anything just to make me happy, generous, obedient,and fast payment. when I know you won’t waste my time I’ll give you a chance, *** : chericouture

deleting this asap I’m head over heels in love with one person, but respect it likely will never happen, very attached to, attracted to and missing the company of another (both met here) and there are 2 other people, I would consider seeing again (also met here); that I would definitely be interested in the possibility of seeing again.. otherwise, there’s no reason to keep doing this.. I do sorta need to “go up on a mountain top” for a little while and not get into any more entanglements and -ABSOLUTELY. Only want to be owned and cherished by one man. there’s no reason to keep spinning wheels ; I’m just making things worse and feeling like a cheap whore. the world is like this? so what.. I don’t have to give in to the “way the world is” anymore.. maybe we can make a better world.. I can’t keep chatting w various ppl when I only want one..(but my drive is very high and sometimes I prefer to chat/sext and nothing else) want to be a live-in slave/lg to a kind and open minded daddy who can enjoy my top kinks w me: Daddy/lg roleplay that can get pretty creative, mild to moderate cnc, medical roleplay, and if he happens to be bisexual, mmf could get pretty interesting. like to be told what to do in & out of the bedroom. If I was ordered to do something in a sensual tone, whether it was a chore or to sit down and be quiet; I’d really prefer that kind of dynamic. while I have, quite regrettably gone from extreme compliance and submission to very bratty and verbally disrespectful or annoying verbal behaviors at times- when my needs are met and communication is clear- this rarely ever happens and I always prefer to be simultaneously very submissive and assertive. I also don’t think it’s fair to be assessed as a woman who is not capable of being loyal and faithful, when you’re in a dynamic where you’re expected to go days, weeks or months without physical intimacy, guess at where you stand with someone, and wait days for just even a text or phone call check-in, on top of being expected to have no concept of regular intimacy.. Women can be very sexual and have a high drive too. If it were up to me, I’d have sex 3x/day with an occasional day off now and then: all, absolutely with the same one & only person- but, we’d also be open to mmf & fmf and some forms of exhibitionism within constraints of privacy and legal parameters. I’d love the rule to be: Daddy is free to do as he pleases.. he will most likely engage with someone else 2-3x a month, but won’t neglect our time together. he’ll have a day or 2 of full space given where he isn’t even expected to talk to or interact much with me. I engage with others only in Daddy’s presence and with his involvement. I’m allowed to sext with others, without meeting, if I need to take care of my needs while he is busy. yes, I want to live with him soon and there are so many ways this makes it better for and easier on both of us; and then there is no need to take me out on dates as long as we Netflix & chill together. I will leave the house for hours or days at a time, if Daddy needs alone time with someone else. But I wish all of us as women, including myself, would be wise enough and have enough self-love, not to engage in entanglements or strict nsa with those who don’t care about us on any level: ex. they find a really obedient girl who does have a mild oral fixation and take advantage by pressing for a lot of oral without reciprocating and not caring if she’s being satisfied, so long as he is or being with a man who doesn’t care what happens to you at all, outside of being available for him- you could get hit by a bus after you leave his presence- he wouldn’t really care too much- if you had a flat tire or found yourself in some kind of danger- he’d much rather miss that call than take it or help you- bc that is pretty crazy and is something that shows the downfall of modern society, why would any of us give it up to people who really don’t care if we live or die or if we’re ok or not? being a Dom is much more than setting the rules or being rough sexually (don’t even have to be rough in order to be dominant, as there are Pleasure and soft Doms, firm but fair Doms, etc) I enjoy some level of roughness once I trust you- but as something expressed by a Pleasure Dom or a soft-leaning DD, who is still very much in control and demand..*** ** had to make a new profile AGAIN, bc it was suddenly requiring log in, not *accepting tmy password then not allowing links to reset password to work, but hey, I have a question: If someone had a beautiful vintage 1988 Ferrari for sale… it had a dent & a tail light out, & needed a tune up.. but it was otherwise, a beautiful car w a lovely interior leather seats, somehow magically gets better mileage than other comparable Ferraris, and drives hella fast and lets say it’s for sale for the reasonable price of: genuine love and honesty on everything important.. and getting driven every day and won’t get mad if you drive other cars sometimes, as long as she gets driven every day.. and taken care of properly- would you be lame enough to call her a worthless piece of junk? just bc she needs a tune up and a few minor repairs?? I just got scammed by someone on this site.. first time here, second time I’ve fallen for a romance scam but I actually believe it was the original network of scammers from 2024, coming back stronger and improved- like a mutated virus. and I’m going to report them at every level, the ic3 fbi site and hire a PI w cyber tracking as soon as I’m able to.. so there was no real reason to add to the list of issues with Libras, starting with my ex husband, bc this person wasn’t even real… I will not be stupid anymore the old days of dating were better internet dating is super convenient but has been a major kill switch to real love and even genuine connection and frienship If you can’t be my friend: please don’t even try to be my lover if taking me out to a super cheap low key meal or 1 appletini is too much to ask- please keep looking for someone else. if long term isn’t a possibility- please don’t bother me. I need a daddy or pleasure dom who is taller than me, preferably 5’ 6 or taller (in real height), has a prettier face than my fluctuating between 6/10 to 8/10 on the daily, face. please have at least 6 inches for me, but not more than 10 and preferably not more than 9 huge plus if you are circumcised a beautiful, sexy, curly haired redhead *was working out at EoS fitness in San Diego today- I stared at him like a hungry orphan, from the other side of the outdoor gym space, don’t think he saw me. he was a short king, about 5’ 7 maybe, muscular, working out w his friend (unless he is Gay and I didn’t realize, which is pretty hot).. I wanted to just go up to him and say “I like your hair!” but I didn’t have the girl-ballz I’m super kinky but I need a man who is: open minded prettier than me a natural dom, but kind open to the consideration of a ltr, and willing to take me out to Wendy’s or Carl’s Jr or even McDonald’s or a bar + be my genuine friend in the meantime; if NOT interested in ltr with me— willing to meet up with me at least 2x/week to start, + stay in some level of daily communication (just a few low key texts & pic exchanges a day; for the most part I’ve learned my lesson about blowing up a phone when I’m either: super into him + super horny or 2. into him, but insecure about him sticking around…as IF that helps…) and then I won’t see anyone else at all… in