Kinky women in San Diego

Hihi My name is Lyra Ive been interested in BDSM for a long time and am mainly submissive, though I can be dominant at times. My sub side is kinky but I often do not feel horny or want to participate in sexual activities. I find myself just being submissive as It helps me feel supported and regulated. I am hoping to find friends or people who can just guide me when I fall back a little. :) I am also just fine making friends and talking about bdsm as it is something I am passionate about. I’m not looking for anything in person as I am shy. Online is great! it also doesn’t have to be long term at all, whatever is best for you! (I do not send)

I’m ready to enjoy life with like mind person, I’m warm hearted, fun loving with a zest for living my best life. I enjoy the simple things in life. I have a very good sense of humor.

pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!

I am an open, sincere and purposeful woman who believes in true love and good relationships. I love harmony in life, in thoughts, at home and in relationships. I always strive for development, both in my career and in my personal life. It is important for me to maintain balance.

If I needed to describe my character in one word, I would say that I am kind. But I can also say about myself that I am caring, honest, ambitious. I love to take care, but I also want to take care of me.

Hi! I'm trying to figure out what I like so I'm up for trying new things. Looking for someone that’s not afraid to take control and is good at communication. would love to talk more about interests with you 😊

I'm 5.7 ft, 166cm tall. I exercise three time in a week to keep me healthy. I am a cheerful and optimistic person, I always can find something positive in any situations. I try to understand and respect other people needs and wishes and I am ready for compromises if it is possible, of course.

Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it

I'm here to play. I want to explore new things as well as just enjoy the basics. I love to be submissive but can go both ways.

I’m a driven businesswoman who works hard and loves what I do, but I also value balance, laughter, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good food, travel, and making time for the people who matter most. I’m looking for a confident, genuine man who knows what he wants in life and is ready to share both adventures and quiet moments together.

Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.

Hiiii! Nice to meet you. *I'm not into casual sex with strangers. *I'm not a unicorn. *Do not message me repeatedly. You will be blocked. *Do not message me unsolicited spicy photos or sexual messages. This should be a no-brainer if you have any kink education. *🚫 FANTASY PUSHING =IMMEDIATE BLOCK ***If you don't acknowledge you've read my profile, I will not respond

I'm looking for local friends and play partners. If you can not physically get to me to play, please dont waste my time or yours, it's a no. I am looking for connections and bonds. To start ,friends with benefits. Eventually, I would love a long-term nonmonogamaus relationship. In my vanilla life, when at home, I enjoy cooking, playing video games, and mostly RPG PVE like dragon age or skyrim. When I'm out, I'm usually hanging out at Fiesta or any other place my best budy can go. My best buddy is my dog, Jade.

Interested in exploring CNC, somnophilia, free use, objectification, etc. essentially just being used for my body. Unfortunately does require alot of trust with a partner and previous partners did not share the same kinks so havent gotten to test alot. Open to weird kinks, its very hot to watch someone get their sexual fantasies fulfilled

CIS GENDER FEMALE. SHE/HER/QUEEN/GODDESS Black Queen. Sensual Domme. What I love: ✨ Rituals of devotion (daily check-ins, affirmations, service) ✨ Sensual domination (teasing, edging, gentle restraint) ✨ A sub who listens, learns, and grows under my direction ✨ Playfulness mixed with reverence (***s are really good boys) I’m not here for games or half-effort. I want a good boy who understands that submission is a gift, and my attention is a privilege.

new to the community and looking for a dom to teach me to be a good sub. I’m definitely a masochist and a rope bunny. I wanna be restrained or tied up. I have a brat personality for sure but I can also be a good pet/slave when I need to be. big fan of biting and being bitten. I’d be down for role play and toys too.

Im a cosplayer, full time art student, stage performer for the rocky horror picture show. looking for someone to go to Ren faires with me. Nerdy ADHD golden retriever boys hit me up! - you can find me online under or Tattooedphoenxx tattedphoenx - *Special interests* definitely have a praise kink impact play temperature play love being restrained exhibitionist ***d orgasms oversized toys

**YOUR PLACE** **Pleasure Dom Wanted** **Must be tested prior to the play session ** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist theory. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage, sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints

Bi. Interested in women or couples. In a relationship but we both love to have a good time! We love to go out bar hopping and dancing. If your energy’s good, we’ll get along. We are experienced and not flakey !

I just moved to San Diego from Kansas City, I'm just looking to meet people and maybe play a little have some fun and see where it goes.

Submissive by nature, bratty by design. I value transparency, honesty, loyalty, and real presence. Kind, funny, open-minded, and adventurous.. looking for a grounded, dominant partner who leads with strength, intention, and respect.

I'm new to realizing that I'm not alone in this freaktasticness... I'm just coming out of the fog after a LTR, and just looking to explore my kink more thoroughly, with people who don't make me feel bad for what i like. I'm super into ass play, and i want to explore my role as an emerging dominatrix, so first and foremost, madames of experience, please teach me. i am open to new experiences, and i want to make new friends.

I’m looking to explore different kinks and figuring out what I like. I’m super easygoing, a little shy at first, but ready to explore and have some fun 😊 I’m typically more submissive, and would like to find a good Dom to show me the ropes, pleasure Dom preferably 😉 Not interested in anything online. Locals only San Diego area

❀ Call me Angel ❀ Bratty - Sassy - Classy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ❀ Experienced Doms only ❀ I want an obsessed man (25-39 only) who naturally likes to lead their partner abd isn't nonchalant ❀ Men who workout.. 🥰😘😘 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - NO PROFILE PICTURES = BLOCKED IMMEDIATELY ❀ 🚫 no sub men ❀ 🚫 no women - unless for friends ♡🥰 ❀ 🚫 no trans ❀ 🚫 no long distance (same state only) ❀ 🚫 sexual immediately ❀ 🚫 420 ❀ 🚫 having/wanting kids ❀ 🚫 no casual - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -

If I needed to describe my character in one word, I would say that I am kind. But I can also say about myself that I am caring, honest, ambitious. I love to take care, but I also want to take care of me.

I’m ready to enjoy life with like mind person, I’m warm hearted, fun loving with a zest for living my best life. I enjoy the simple things in life. I have a very good sense of humor.

I’m a driven businesswoman who works hard and loves what I do, but I also value balance, laughter, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good food, travel, and making time for the people who matter most. I’m looking for a confident, genuine man who knows what he wants in life and is ready to share both adventures and quiet moments together.

I'm here to play. I want to explore new things as well as just enjoy the basics. I love to be submissive but can go both ways.

I am an open, sincere and purposeful woman who believes in true love and good relationships. I love harmony in life, in thoughts, at home and in relationships. I always strive for development, both in my career and in my personal life. It is important for me to maintain balance.

I'm 5.7 ft, 166cm tall. I exercise three time in a week to keep me healthy. I am a cheerful and optimistic person, I always can find something positive in any situations. I try to understand and respect other people needs and wishes and I am ready for compromises if it is possible, of course.

Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it

pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!

Hihi My name is Lyra Ive been interested in BDSM for a long time and am mainly submissive, though I can be dominant at times. My sub side is kinky but I often do not feel horny or want to participate in sexual activities. I find myself just being submissive as It helps me feel supported and regulated. I am hoping to find friends or people who can just guide me when I fall back a little. :) I am also just fine making friends and talking about bdsm as it is something I am passionate about. I’m not looking for anything in person as I am shy. Online is great! it also doesn’t have to be long term at all, whatever is best for you! (I do not send)

Hi! I'm trying to figure out what I like so I'm up for trying new things. Looking for someone that’s not afraid to take control and is good at communication. would love to talk more about interests with you 😊

Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.

Feminine, charming, and appreciative of a man who enjoys providing. I value generosity, confidence, and mutual enjoyment. Let’s keep it classy and rewarding. 💸

Definitely new to the “underworld” of sex and my own exploration but I wouldn’t categorize myself as being a prude haha. Super into and curious about rope play/shibari, dom/sub dynamic, *** equalling pleasure (masochist vibes), and threesome/unicorn exploration. All in all curious about others experiences and connecting with likeminded individuals as I continue to explore this part of myself in a safe and communicative way 💜

Hey all, I’m 33, she/her. I’m here for the community side of kink: good conversation, skill-building, and meeting thoughtful people. My vibe: Curious, grounded, playful, and big on aftercare and clear expectations. What I’m into exploring: Rope, D/s dynamics, sensation play and power exchange. Hard limits: ***, ***s or needles. What I value most: Communication, kindness, emotional intelligence, and people who respect a “no” without sulking.

**YOUR PLACE** **Pleasure Dom Wanted** **Must be tested prior to the play session ** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist theory. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage, sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints

Currently married to my husband of 20 years. We've opened our relationship to spice things up. Don't be afraid to message me💕💕

I just moved to San Diego from Kansas City, I'm just looking to meet people and maybe play a little have some fun and see where it goes.

I'm Eve! I offer structured, consent-based power exchange rooted in psychological control, discipline, and calm authority. This is not fantasy fulfillment, sexting, or casual play. This is a guided submission for those who value intelligence, presence, and restraint. Beginner-friendly — not lazy-friendly. Approach only if you understand that access to me is earned.

I'm new to realizing that I'm not alone in this freaktasticness... I'm just coming out of the fog after a LTR, and just looking to explore my kink more thoroughly, with people who don't make me feel bad for what i like. I'm super into ass play, and i want to explore my role as an emerging dominatrix, so first and foremost, madames of experience, please teach me. i am open to new experiences, and i want to make new friends.

not interested in anything sexual before getting to know each other so pls keep your nasty messages to yrself! self made porn⭐️ super submissive, so dom ppl only pls! i dont want yr nudes!

❀ Call me Angel ❀ Bratty - Sassy - Classy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ❀ Experienced Doms only ❀ I want an obsessed man (25-39 only) who naturally likes to lead their partner abd isn't nonchalant ❀ Men who workout.. 🥰😘😘 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - NO PROFILE PICTURES = BLOCKED IMMEDIATELY ❀ 🚫 no sub men ❀ 🚫 no women - unless for friends ♡🥰 ❀ 🚫 no trans ❀ 🚫 no long distance (same state only) ❀ 🚫 sexual immediately ❀ 🚫 420 ❀ 🚫 having/wanting kids ❀ 🚫 no casual - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -

Bi. Interested in women or couples. In a relationship but we both love to have a good time! We love to go out bar hopping and dancing. If your energy’s good, we’ll get along. We are experienced and not flakey !

Plus-size sub exploring… colorful hair, tattoos, Mexicana 🇲🇽, 🍻 + 🎶 junkie. Be patient, take the lead, and watch me open up

East coast souther girl planted in California!! witchy, 420 friendly, kink friendly. Practice ENM for four years. Looking for more friends in the lifestyle. Looking to learn more about the community as I am always down to broaden my mind!!