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I AM AN EXPERIENCED DOMINANT MISTRESS WITH A DEEP APPRECIATION FOR (FlNDOM) AND A WIDE RANGE OF BDSM DYNAMICS AND FETISHES. I VALUE DISCIPLINE, TRUST, RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, AND THE POWER EXCHANGE THAT FORMS THE FOUNDATION OF A GENUINE D/S RELATIONSHIP.
Female (40) San Diego, California
spoiled princess exploring her dom side ♡ into praise, teasing, attention, control, pretty things, and watching good boys behave for me. soft when deserved, mean when earned. i like clingy devotion, gifts, late night chats, obedience, and being treated like the pretty distraction i am. still exploring, but definitely discovering i enjoy being worshipped 🤭
Female (22) San Diego, California
30 year old business woman building a legacy for herself, In my external world I must be a strong dominant business woman that shows no emotions, so ddlg has been my outlet. I love being a soft silly little girl and dressing up and just being myself.
Female (30) San Diego, California
Hello! I'm a 26 year old Latina/Italian submissive exploring the thrilling world of kink. I’m passionate about BDSM, role-playing, pet play] and eager to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of power exchange.
Female (38) San Diego, California
I’m very naughty sub and looking for a good dom to complete me. I’m very naughty and loved to be pleased and satisfied every single moment we spend together. I think I enjoy all kind of kinky activities.
Female (49) San Diego, California
Your fantasies make me so horny, like getting of while reading them. Really into Hardcore, ***, ***, name-calling and CNC. Need to be someone's ***slut. Can also change languages to German if that is more comfortable for you. Haven't found anyone extreme enough yet ... are you the one?
Female (26) San Diego, California
couple looking for cyberfun, sizequeen also me an my husband is in to all types of kinky shit xxx im here to fulfill any fantasy of fetish of yours if u know what I mean my husband dont mind. are out there ??
Female (39) San Diego, California
pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!
Female (24) San Diego, California
I dream of meeting a man who is strong, kind and protective; someone who can make me feel safe, loved, and cherished. A man who values tenderness, loyalty, and family.
Female (39) San Diego, California
I’m bi : ) I want a master. I like sex parties and masturbation control. I like being restrained. I want you to dress me and decide if i get to wear underwear. I want to be spanked and punished.
Female (24) San Diego, California
ask me 420 🌳Sativa Diva 94 🥹 SD born and raised ❤️ Married and got a situationship (Marriage open , situationship is not so open but we wanna have funn) Here for kinky dates and to learn new stuff 😉😉❤️❤️
Female (31) San Diego, California
Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.
Female (21) San Diego, California
**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.
Female (25) San Diego, California
Hai I’m Celeste, I’m happily in a relationship w my boyfriend (he’s the handsome fella in the photos) ☺️ *not interested in dating or playing solo* We are looking for someone to play with or just someone to chill and hang with. whichever way the vibes go🙃💖 We recently moved to California! Care to show us around?🤗 I have the free version of the app so plz message me and I’ll give you my social Questions? don’t hesitate to ask💘 About me: I like hanging out at home but also going on mall trips or beach days. I’m a sucker for adventures so you’ll never be bored. I love makeup,dressing up, and music with a nice blunt on the side 🍃 I’m also open to the femdom lifestyle if you find yourself wanting to buy a prettyGem like me some nice things 😘 Open to conversations, cuddles, gaming and more🙃 She/they. Swipe right, if you dare 😈
Female (18) San Diego, California
interested in learning shibari and meeting new people in the bdsm community not looking for sex or old creepy men just future opportunities and would like to explore and learn more about myself. Also interested in being worshipped and spoiled like i deserve 🙂.
Female (18) San Diego, California
*This time around, felt I had to delete & recreate. app was glitching like heck. idk if that’s the reason I’m getting about 5% of the messages I normally get on this site… also just noticed that somehow “degrader” got selected instead of degradee. I’m definitely a degradee, not a degrader but tbh I am a closet “firecracker” when upset that maybe some people don’t expect bc I’m chubby/allegedly, “a white girl” I don’t want to be that way.. I’m trying to change, and I get no enjoyment out of it. thing is, besides being a white girl, my mom is half southern Italian from Chicago and we’ll just leave it at: she introduced me to ptsd..she’s also 1/16 Blackfoot, Irish & Norwegian but I digress… I’ve been to hell, and I don’t even know if I’m back yet, or if it’s like my final destination or something but I know I’m a good woman, and I’m not crazy I’m just an emotional infp with trauma from narcissistic *** with physical ***, Dx’d ptsd, anxiety; and suspected mild autism… I was almost stupid enough recently to blow most of my *** on a tattoo of a “cheeky” orange boy cat, clawing at my heart, but common sense prevailed I guess. my heart is broken.. the good news is this handsome “orange cat” has my heart so I can’t bother anyone else atm w wanting a relationship but I wish I could live with a good, protective daddy and serve him in the meantime (til my heart heals, I mean, bc I doubt he’ll come back )… If you’re a Daddy w/ an insatiable appetite, Filtered by restraint & common sense You’re taller than me; a gentleman, simultaneously an Owner & a nurturer: Maybe you can take me out on the town and work towards placing my collar and holding my leash? *Newly humbled, but more confident in what I’m looking for. still love redheads. still looking for a sexy daddy who will let me pour whipped cream in his ass & eat it out.. but never jumping straight into bed, again Must love ample curves, and a dirty mind (not a Voyeur or a sadist); a real Daddy/kind master/owner- with few but reasonable limits looking for a kinky boyfriend to start out seeing 1-2 times/week.. not looking to be a toy only, not open to nsa at all. need a dom to claim me. yes, I deleted my other profile bc it was glitching & had rapidly gone downhill. **I lost contact with some people from my previous profile: soulfulslave- it was glitching so badly, I couldn't send messages any more anyway. A few were intentionally blocked, but there's a few wish I could still talk to.. in a way Because honestly I am deeply, devastatingly in love w someone I met on here in Feb, who came back for a couple more rounds..and sure, I was way more in turn wrong, but it felt like he was just using me as a disposable object.. but at the same time- it didn't. he was so present when we were together. It felt like love, even if it wasn't... and I love him, even if he doesn't love me. I just wish I could serve him, I fully trusted myself in his arms, that I could die there and at least I'd "die happy." I've never felt like that before, with the possible exception of my first love who I knew for years, and haven't seen in a very long time.. but no, the guys on here who aren't invested or present (you can be very present and attentive, even if you only want sex) or who are very attentive partners but just want to hookup/nsa, I'm not here for that so please don't reach out if that's the case. also not looking for any long distance or cyber fun
Female (42) San Diego, California
Hii, I'm Rabbit 🕳️ I’m here for friends and potential play partners / FWB with fem aligned people – not looking to date currently 🙂‍↕️🤍 I don't do online/digital either, much preferring we grab a coffee and if we're vibing, we can meet at a play party, or dungeon, or general kink event! BDSM is and has been a vital part of my life as one of as one of my longest-standing special interests. What I love is that no matter how deep I go, there’s always more to learn and I crave to learn it all :3 A sadomasochist, but on a bit of a masochistic probation for college reasons ^^" Recently, I've been looking into emotional sadomasochism as well and dollification, but overall focus on edge play... from impact play (thuddy), to needles, to hypnosis, and of course any and all sorts of sensory deprivation. You can frequently find me at an assortment of different local kink events (workshops, play parties, munches, etc, etc) 🤍 My Fet is run_rabbit_run if you'd like to know more! Outside of that, I’m a nerd, I ***, who just started school to become a holistic health practitioner, that adores my cats (I have two), that is on a very long D&D podcast listening spree, that adores any and all types of foods, and spooky shit / the months of September & October / Halloween. 420 friendly and spiritual
Female (20) San Diego, California
Equal parts soft and stubborn. Drawn to deep conversations, playful banter, live music, and genuine connection. Smart enough to challenge you, sweet enough to put you at ease, and curious enough to explore where a good spark might lead. Open minded, intentional, and always appreciative of people who know how to communicate. If you can make me laugh, we’re already off to a good start.
Female (32) San Diego, California
psychology student that dabbles in *** in her free time. when im not studying im out partying. im attracted to men who like to be useful whether thats one who enjoys buying me drinks and cute things, or letting me have fun toying with you. connecting with me requires your devotion. you have to understand my time is valuable to me so it wont be wasted if your not serious.
Female (21) San Diego, California
sweet, shy and naughty! just a little with a bratty side who loves being tamed and cherished 💕 looking for a LTR with a dominant daddy that knows how to balance being stern and taming my bratty side, while also nurturing and caring for my little side. i prefer older men (35-50) who like to take on the role of leading and providing both in and out of the bedroom. i prefer someone in San Diego, OC or Los Angeles! chat soon xx
Female (25) San Diego, California
Hey there! I’m new to the kink world! I started dipping my toes in by doing *** and moved into selling my panties on the Internet and other kinky goodies (I haven’t posted on *** in a fat minute tho) I’m looking to meet and talk to new people who I can comfortably explore different kinks with. I’m demisexual so unfortunately I’m not big on hookups but I’m not opposed to Fwb once we’re more comfortable with one another. also side note if you eat pussy for YOUR pleasure that’s a big plus 🥵 if you’re interested in seeing any of my content from *** just message me for the link, or if you’re interested in getting a pair of my panties or socks (I offer much more too) just let me know
Female (26) San Diego, California
Im a cosplayer, full time art student, stage performer for the rocky horror picture show. looking for someone to go to Ren faires with me. Nerdy ADHD golden retriever boys hit me up! - you can find me online under Tattooedphoenxx, Tattedphoenx, or TattooedPhoenix - *Special interests* definitely have a praise kink impact play temperature play love being restrained exhibitionist ***d orgasms oversized toys
Female (32) San Diego, California
CGLG/DDLG live in. Family. Trophy wife. Marriage. Long term. Breeding. Pregnancy. Femdom/cuckhold. Feminism. Support. Open to a male or female partner :) monogamous lol.
Female (28) San Diego, California
I'm new to realizing that I'm not alone in this freaktasticness... I'm just coming out of the fog after a LTR, and just looking to explore my kink more thoroughly, with people who don't make me feel bad for what i like. I'm super into ass play, and i want to explore my role as an emerging dominatrix, so first and foremost, madames of experience, please teach me. i am open to new experiences, and i want to make new friends.
Female (39) San Diego, California

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I AM AN EXPERIENCED DOMINANT MISTRESS WITH A DEEP APPRECIATION FOR (FlNDOM) AND A WIDE RANGE OF BDSM DYNAMICS AND FETISHES. I VALUE DISCIPLINE, TRUST, RESPECT, COMMUNICATION, AND THE POWER EXCHANGE THAT FORMS THE FOUNDATION OF A GENUINE D/S RELATIONSHIP.
Female (40) San Diego, California
30 year old business woman building a legacy for herself, In my external world I must be a strong dominant business woman that shows no emotions, so ddlg has been my outlet. I love being a soft silly little girl and dressing up and just being myself.
Female (30) San Diego, California
I’m very naughty sub and looking for a good dom to complete me. I’m very naughty and loved to be pleased and satisfied every single moment we spend together. I think I enjoy all kind of kinky activities.
Female (49) San Diego, California
I dream of meeting a man who is strong, kind and protective; someone who can make me feel safe, loved, and cherished. A man who values tenderness, loyalty, and family.
Female (39) San Diego, California
spoiled princess exploring her dom side ♡ into praise, teasing, attention, control, pretty things, and watching good boys behave for me. soft when deserved, mean when earned. i like clingy devotion, gifts, late night chats, obedience, and being treated like the pretty distraction i am. still exploring, but definitely discovering i enjoy being worshipped 🤭
Female (22) San Diego, California
I’m bi : ) I want a master. I like sex parties and masturbation control. I like being restrained. I want you to dress me and decide if i get to wear underwear. I want to be spanked and punished.
Female (24) San Diego, California
Hello! I'm a 26 year old Latina/Italian submissive exploring the thrilling world of kink. I’m passionate about BDSM, role-playing, pet play] and eager to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of power exchange.
Female (38) San Diego, California
couple looking for cyberfun, sizequeen also me an my husband is in to all types of kinky shit xxx im here to fulfill any fantasy of fetish of yours if u know what I mean my husband dont mind. are out there ??
Female (39) San Diego, California
pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!
Female (24) San Diego, California
Your fantasies make me so horny, like getting of while reading them. Really into Hardcore, ***, ***, name-calling and CNC. Need to be someone's ***slut. Can also change languages to German if that is more comfortable for you. Haven't found anyone extreme enough yet ... are you the one?
Female (26) San Diego, California
ask me 420 🌳Sativa Diva 94 🥹 SD born and raised ❤️ Married and got a situationship (Marriage open , situationship is not so open but we wanna have funn) Here for kinky dates and to learn new stuff 😉😉❤️❤️
Female (31) San Diego, California
Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.
Female (21) San Diego, California
**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.
Female (25) San Diego, California
I'm ethically non-monogamous, nesting with my fiance. He knows I'm here, and is very supportive. We play separately and have very different needs. I need a firm hand or I will run you over, but I love being cared for too. I'm very into older men- yes even older than my own father. I rarely behave, think of me like the cat that looks right at you as it sweats the glass dish off the counter. If you know how to handle my attitude, we'll get along great.
Female (37) San Diego, California
psychology student that dabbles in *** in her free time. when im not studying im out partying. im attracted to men who like to be useful whether thats one who enjoys buying me drinks and cute things, or letting me have fun toying with you. connecting with me requires your devotion. you have to understand my time is valuable to me so it wont be wasted if your not serious.
Female (21) San Diego, California
*This time around, felt I had to delete & recreate. app was glitching like heck. idk if that’s the reason I’m getting about 5% of the messages I normally get on this site… also just noticed that somehow “degrader” got selected instead of degradee. I’m definitely a degradee, not a degrader but tbh I am a closet “firecracker” when upset that maybe some people don’t expect bc I’m chubby/allegedly, “a white girl” I don’t want to be that way.. I’m trying to change, and I get no enjoyment out of it. thing is, besides being a white girl, my mom is half southern Italian from Chicago and we’ll just leave it at: she introduced me to ptsd..she’s also 1/16 Blackfoot, Irish & Norwegian but I digress… I’ve been to hell, and I don’t even know if I’m back yet, or if it’s like my final destination or something but I know I’m a good woman, and I’m not crazy I’m just an emotional infp with trauma from narcissistic *** with physical ***, Dx’d ptsd, anxiety; and suspected mild autism… I was almost stupid enough recently to blow most of my *** on a tattoo of a “cheeky” orange boy cat, clawing at my heart, but common sense prevailed I guess. my heart is broken.. the good news is this handsome “orange cat” has my heart so I can’t bother anyone else atm w wanting a relationship but I wish I could live with a good, protective daddy and serve him in the meantime (til my heart heals, I mean, bc I doubt he’ll come back )… If you’re a Daddy w/ an insatiable appetite, Filtered by restraint & common sense You’re taller than me; a gentleman, simultaneously an Owner & a nurturer: Maybe you can take me out on the town and work towards placing my collar and holding my leash? *Newly humbled, but more confident in what I’m looking for. still love redheads. still looking for a sexy daddy who will let me pour whipped cream in his ass & eat it out.. but never jumping straight into bed, again Must love ample curves, and a dirty mind (not a Voyeur or a sadist); a real Daddy/kind master/owner- with few but reasonable limits looking for a kinky boyfriend to start out seeing 1-2 times/week.. not looking to be a toy only, not open to nsa at all. need a dom to claim me. yes, I deleted my other profile bc it was glitching & had rapidly gone downhill. **I lost contact with some people from my previous profile: soulfulslave- it was glitching so badly, I couldn't send messages any more anyway. A few were intentionally blocked, but there's a few wish I could still talk to.. in a way Because honestly I am deeply, devastatingly in love w someone I met on here in Feb, who came back for a couple more rounds..and sure, I was way more in turn wrong, but it felt like he was just using me as a disposable object.. but at the same time- it didn't. he was so present when we were together. It felt like love, even if it wasn't... and I love him, even if he doesn't love me. I just wish I could serve him, I fully trusted myself in his arms, that I could die there and at least I'd "die happy." I've never felt like that before, with the possible exception of my first love who I knew for years, and haven't seen in a very long time.. but no, the guys on here who aren't invested or present (you can be very present and attentive, even if you only want sex) or who are very attentive partners but just want to hookup/nsa, I'm not here for that so please don't reach out if that's the case. also not looking for any long distance or cyber fun
Female (42) San Diego, California
Hai I’m Celeste, I’m happily in a relationship w my boyfriend (he’s the handsome fella in the photos) ☺️ *not interested in dating or playing solo* We are looking for someone to play with or just someone to chill and hang with. whichever way the vibes go🙃💖 We recently moved to California! Care to show us around?🤗 I have the free version of the app so plz message me and I’ll give you my social Questions? don’t hesitate to ask💘 About me: I like hanging out at home but also going on mall trips or beach days. I’m a sucker for adventures so you’ll never be bored. I love makeup,dressing up, and music with a nice blunt on the side 🍃 I’m also open to the femdom lifestyle if you find yourself wanting to buy a prettyGem like me some nice things 😘 Open to conversations, cuddles, gaming and more🙃 She/they. Swipe right, if you dare 😈
Female (18) San Diego, California
interested in learning shibari and meeting new people in the bdsm community not looking for sex or old creepy men just future opportunities and would like to explore and learn more about myself. Also interested in being worshipped and spoiled like i deserve 🙂.
Female (18) San Diego, California
Hii, I'm Rabbit 🕳️ I’m here for friends and potential play partners / FWB with fem aligned people – not looking to date currently 🙂‍↕️🤍 I don't do online/digital either, much preferring we grab a coffee and if we're vibing, we can meet at a play party, or dungeon, or general kink event! BDSM is and has been a vital part of my life as one of as one of my longest-standing special interests. What I love is that no matter how deep I go, there’s always more to learn and I crave to learn it all :3 A sadomasochist, but on a bit of a masochistic probation for college reasons ^^" Recently, I've been looking into emotional sadomasochism as well and dollification, but overall focus on edge play... from impact play (thuddy), to needles, to hypnosis, and of course any and all sorts of sensory deprivation. You can frequently find me at an assortment of different local kink events (workshops, play parties, munches, etc, etc) 🤍 My Fet is run_rabbit_run if you'd like to know more! Outside of that, I’m a nerd, I ***, who just started school to become a holistic health practitioner, that adores my cats (I have two), that is on a very long D&D podcast listening spree, that adores any and all types of foods, and spooky shit / the months of September & October / Halloween. 420 friendly and spiritual
Female (20) San Diego, California
Equal parts soft and stubborn. Drawn to deep conversations, playful banter, live music, and genuine connection. Smart enough to challenge you, sweet enough to put you at ease, and curious enough to explore where a good spark might lead. Open minded, intentional, and always appreciative of people who know how to communicate. If you can make me laugh, we’re already off to a good start.
Female (32) San Diego, California
lonely I’ve been in a relationship too long where I couldn’t just fuck.. This is the next chapter of a life I should’ve had over 35 years ago I just want someone to fuck me love me snuggle with as well make me wet and make me feel sexy
Female (49) San Diego, California
CGLG/DDLG live in. Family. Trophy wife. Marriage. Long term. Breeding. Pregnancy. Femdom/cuckhold. Feminism. Support. Open to a male or female partner :) monogamous lol.
Female (28) San Diego, California
✨ Happily open marriage | Drama-free ✨ Sweet, playful, and a little mischievous. Creative soul with a dominant streak. Here for good vibes, fun connections, and someone who can keep up with my energy.
Female (35) San Diego, California
mostly for chit chats and getting my ego inflated beyond repair. if your limits include ***, pegging and women bossing you around, get out my dms. I get on here once a week maybe. I’ll message if you are interesting enough or gas me up. I’m kind of avoidant but if you are subby and hot I’m chasing you around forever.
Female (31) San Diego, California

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