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swtwomac21
swtwomac21
Hello. My name is Lisa, a 37 year-old woman who enjoys the simple and meaningful things in life. I would describe myself as kind-hearted, honest, and easy to talk to. I believe life is better when you share laughter, good conversations, and genuine moments with someone special. I enjoy traveling, listening to music, watching movies, and spending time outdoors. I also love quiet evenings at home with a good meal and interesting conversation. Family and loyalty mean a lot to me, and I value people who are sincere, respectful, and positive. I am here hoping to meet a mature, caring, and genuine man who knows what he wants in life. Someone who believes in trust, communication, and building something real together.
Female (37) San Diego, California
Kitty619
Kitty619
couple looking for cyberfun, sizequeen also me an my husband is in to all types of kinky shit xxx im here to fulfill any fantasy of fetish of yours if u know what I mean my husband dont mind. are out there ??
Female (39) San Diego, California
cassie-5478
cassie-5478
I am an open, sincere and purposeful woman who believes in true love and good relationships. I love harmony in life, in thoughts, at home and in relationships. I always strive for development, both in my career and in my personal life. It is important for me to maintain balance.
Female (45) San Diego, California
HaliDaze
HaliDaze
Hi! I'm trying to figure out what I like so I'm up for trying new things. Looking for someone that’s not afraid to take control and is good at communication. would love to talk more about interests with you 😊
Female (31) San Diego, California
QueenKat666
QueenKat666
I'm here to play. I want to explore new things as well as just enjoy the basics. I love to be submissive but can go both ways.
Female (36) San Diego, California
Olivia186
Olivia186
I’m a driven businesswoman who works hard and loves what I do, but I also value balance, laughter, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good food, travel, and making time for the people who matter most. I’m looking for a confident, genuine man who knows what he wants in life and is ready to share both adventures and quiet moments together.
Female (37) San Diego, California
sluttycnckitty
sluttycnckitty
pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!
Female (24) San Diego, California
xLyrqz
xLyrqz
Hihi My name is Lyra Ive been interested in BDSM for a long time and am mainly submissive, though I can be dominant at times. My sub side is kinky but I often do not feel horny or want to participate in sexual activities. I find myself just being submissive as It helps me feel supported and regulated. I am hoping to find friends or people who can just guide me when I fall back a little. :) I am also just fine making friends and talking about bdsm as it is something I am passionate about. I’m not looking for anything in person as I am shy. Online is great! it also doesn’t have to be long term at all, whatever is best for you! (I do not send)
Female (18) San Diego, California
Helenbae4455
Helenbae4455
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it
Female (36) San Diego, California
Sweety-3386
Sweety-3386
I’m ready to enjoy life with like mind person, I’m warm hearted, fun loving with a zest for living my best life. I enjoy the simple things in life. I have a very good sense of humor.
Female (38) San Diego, California
Myturn332
Myturn332
If I needed to describe my character in one word, I would say that I am kind. But I can also say about myself that I am caring, honest, ambitious. I love to take care, but I also want to take care of me.
Female (49) San Diego, California
Austene
A*****e
Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.
Female (21) San Diego, California
ddlglauren
d********n
sweet, shy and naughty! just a little with a bratty side who loves being tamed and cherished 💕 looking for a LTR with a dominant daddy that knows how to balance being stern and taming my bratty side, while also nurturing and caring for my little side. i prefer older men (35-55) who like to take on the role of leading and providing both in and out of the bedroom. i prefer someone in San Diego, OC or Los Angeles! chat soon 🏽
Female (25) San Diego, California
Faith2026
F*******6
Hello there everyone 👋. I'm a single, fun, honest, lighthearted, hardworking, independent woman. I am looking for other ladies and couples to have fun with. I also don't have many platonic friends so I would love to find someone ***s to do normal things with. I would love to find my partner in crime to share things with for life but not holding my breath lol. I'm also super kinky, submissive and a masochist.
Female (42) San Diego, California
Juicifer
J******r
Just an alt girl lookin to explore her sexuality I travel a decent amount for work but when Im home I enjoy playing video games, hiking and cooking
Female (23) San Diego, California
san-diego1312
s***********2
Hiiii! Nice to meet you. *I'm not into casual sex with strangers. *I'm not a unicorn. *Do not message me repeatedly. *Do not message me unsolicited spicy photos or sexual messages. This should be a no-brainer if you have any kink education. *FANTASY PUSHING =IMMEDIATE BLOCK ***If you don't acknowledge you've read my profile, I will not respond
Female (43) San Diego, California
TravelGirl225xx
T*************x
Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.
Female (39) San Diego, California
Girl6Knicks
G*********s
**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.
Female (25) San Diego, California
babybibrat92
b**********2
I’m a nerdy, neurodivergent lady who wears her heart on her sleeve because life is too short not to. I’m hoping to find a FWB situation which means we're *friends* who can also be physical together. I want someone who will kiss me with their whole body, and seduce my mind. Someone who will tease me until I’m losing my mind and then make me laugh until I cry later. I practice and value consent, respect, boundaries, and open communication, and seek those who do the same. I’m very passionate and feel things deeply. I’m bratty, love riling you up and turning you feral for me, but I can be your good little girl too. I've been to a lifestyle club once and loved the voyeurism and exhibitionism aspects and would love to do that more. I am HSV-1 positive since 5/2025 due to a situationship who wasn't aware he had it. I've been outbreak-free since the first one though, and am willing to use any and all protection. I love ***s and I will yell "Doggy!" like a 4 year old if I see one in public. I like playing cozy and/or story-driven video games and reading (mostly fantasy/sci-fi and historical fiction, especially involving romance/smut). The giant Tesla coil at the Museum of Science and Industry in Chicago is one of my favorite things ever. I'm absolutely a sapiosexual and good wordplay is like foreplay to me. I’m a feminist, believe in science, BLM, immigrants' rights, womxn's rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, respecting people's identities and pronouns, protecting trans kids, believing survivors of SA. MAGA/Trump cultists/Republicans don't even waste my time. The pics with the purple and pink hair are the most recent ❤️
Female (33) San Diego, California
RigelVenus
R********s
I'm looking for local friends and play partners. If you can not physically get to me to play, please dont waste my time or yours, it's a no. I am looking for connections and bonds. To start ,friends with benefits. Eventually, I would love a long-term nonmonogamaus relationship. In my vanilla life, when at home, I enjoy cooking, playing video games, and mostly RPG PVE like dragon age or skyrim. When I'm out, I'm usually hanging out at Fiesta or any other place my best budy can go. My best buddy is my dog, Jade.
Female (48) San Diego, California
kenzdollxo
k********o
hi sexy people, I’m a unicorn who mostly plays with couples, I love sensual safe fun!! BBC to the front pls!!!! looking to meet fun couples or hung single men DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE A SINGLE MAN you will get blocked if you’re thousands miles away
Female (27) San Diego, California
TattooedPhoenix
T*************x
Im a cosplayer, full time art student, stage performer for the rocky horror picture show. looking for someone to go to Ren faires with me. Nerdy ADHD golden retriever boys hit me up! - you can find me online under or Tattooedphoenxx tattedphoenx - *Special interests* definitely have a praise kink impact play temperature play love being restrained exhibitionist ***d orgasms oversized toys
Female (31) San Diego, California
Giuli93
G*****3
PROFILE IS PAUSED - Taking a break I’m looking to explore different kinks and figuring out what I like. I’m super easygoing, a little shy at first, but ready to explore and have some fun 😊 I’m typically more submissive, and would like to find a good Dom to show me the ropes, pleasure Dom preferably 😉 Not interested in anything online. Locals only San Diego area
Female (32) San Diego, California
Classy_Princess
C*************s
❀ I AM ASEXUAL ❀ Bratty - Sassy - Classy - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ❀ Just looking for one or 2 daddy dom(s) who like to naturally lead and be protective, but still be soft for their partner. Ideally age 25-37. If you don't match what I'm looking for, don't message. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ❀ 🚫 no sub men ❀ 🚫 no women at all ❀ 🚫 no trans ❀ 🚫 no NB ❀ 🚫 no long distance (same state only) ❀ 🚫 fwb/casual ❀ 🚫 420 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - SAME STATE ONLY!!!
Female (23) San Diego, California

New members in San Diego

swtwomac21
swtwomac21
Hello. My name is Lisa, a 37 year-old woman who enjoys the simple and meaningful things in life. I would describe myself as kind-hearted, honest, and easy to talk to. I believe life is better when you share laughter, good conversations, and genuine moments with someone special. I enjoy traveling, listening to music, watching movies, and spending time outdoors. I also love quiet evenings at home with a good meal and interesting conversation. Family and loyalty mean a lot to me, and I value people who are sincere, respectful, and positive. I am here hoping to meet a mature, caring, and genuine man who knows what he wants in life. Someone who believes in trust, communication, and building something real together.
Female (37) San Diego, California
Myturn332
Myturn332
If I needed to describe my character in one word, I would say that I am kind. But I can also say about myself that I am caring, honest, ambitious. I love to take care, but I also want to take care of me.
Female (49) San Diego, California
Sweety-3386
Sweety-3386
I’m ready to enjoy life with like mind person, I’m warm hearted, fun loving with a zest for living my best life. I enjoy the simple things in life. I have a very good sense of humor.
Female (38) San Diego, California
Olivia186
Olivia186
I’m a driven businesswoman who works hard and loves what I do, but I also value balance, laughter, and meaningful connections. I enjoy good food, travel, and making time for the people who matter most. I’m looking for a confident, genuine man who knows what he wants in life and is ready to share both adventures and quiet moments together.
Female (37) San Diego, California
QueenKat666
QueenKat666
I'm here to play. I want to explore new things as well as just enjoy the basics. I love to be submissive but can go both ways.
Female (36) San Diego, California
cassie-5478
cassie-5478
I am an open, sincere and purposeful woman who believes in true love and good relationships. I love harmony in life, in thoughts, at home and in relationships. I always strive for development, both in my career and in my personal life. It is important for me to maintain balance.
Female (45) San Diego, California
Kitty619
Kitty619
couple looking for cyberfun, sizequeen also me an my husband is in to all types of kinky shit xxx im here to fulfill any fantasy of fetish of yours if u know what I mean my husband dont mind. are out there ??
Female (39) San Diego, California
Helenbae4455
Helenbae4455
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it
Female (36) San Diego, California
sluttycnckitty
sluttycnckitty
pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!
Female (24) San Diego, California
xLyrqz
xLyrqz
Hihi My name is Lyra Ive been interested in BDSM for a long time and am mainly submissive, though I can be dominant at times. My sub side is kinky but I often do not feel horny or want to participate in sexual activities. I find myself just being submissive as It helps me feel supported and regulated. I am hoping to find friends or people who can just guide me when I fall back a little. :) I am also just fine making friends and talking about bdsm as it is something I am passionate about. I’m not looking for anything in person as I am shy. Online is great! it also doesn’t have to be long term at all, whatever is best for you! (I do not send)
Female (18) San Diego, California
HaliDaze
HaliDaze
Hi! I'm trying to figure out what I like so I'm up for trying new things. Looking for someone that’s not afraid to take control and is good at communication. would love to talk more about interests with you 😊
Female (31) San Diego, California
Austene
A*****e
Looking for someone who can take care of both of my sides brat or not.
Female (21) San Diego, California
san-diego61936
s************6
I'm into *** in a very subtle way nothing too exaggerate I'm very respectful looking for one sub can't really deal with more than one very easy to get along with
Female (41) San Diego, California
Faith2026
F*******6
Hello there everyone 👋. I'm a single, fun, honest, lighthearted, hardworking, independent woman. I am looking for other ladies and couples to have fun with. I also don't have many platonic friends so I would love to find someone ***s to do normal things with. I would love to find my partner in crime to share things with for life but not holding my breath lol. I'm also super kinky, submissive and a masochist.
Female (42) San Diego, California
kailani_kai_SDFD
k**************D
Wanting to find the right, generous, man who i can build a solid relationship with with the utmost trust. solely based online first and develope more down the road. confident and curious. Photos depending if our interest aligns.
Female (36) San Diego, California
NATTTHABRAT
N*********T
i like confidence, humor, and people who know their place when a strong woman walks into the room. Introduce yourself properly. A little sweet. A little savage. Very hard to forget.
Female (30) San Diego, California
JuxtapositionSD
J*************D
submissive i am happily married looking for fun daytime exploration of my submissive side with an experienced Dominant (preferably happily married) that leans towards the Daddy role. sWitch I am also open to daytime playing with couples. I am more flexible in this dynamic and am comfortable in both submissive and Dominant roles. Vanilla-ish My husband and I are new to San Diego and are in need of some friends! We have experience playing together but have not been active in the Lifestyle in many years. I would love to find another happily married couple around our age to build a friendship with where we could enjoy fun , laughter , and some secret spice.
Female (52) San Diego, California
itsmyworld
i********d
hi, it’s my world get used to it. if it’s your pleasure to please me feel free to dm 😈
Female (31) San Diego, California
glittertoes56
g***********6
Feminine, charming, and appreciative of a man who enjoys providing. I value generosity, confidence, and mutual enjoyment. Let’s keep it classy and rewarding. 💸
Female (19) San Diego, California
Juicifer
J******r
Just an alt girl lookin to explore her sexuality I travel a decent amount for work but when Im home I enjoy playing video games, hiking and cooking
Female (23) San Diego, California
sbaby2244
s*******4
Definitely new to the “underworld” of sex and my own exploration but I wouldn’t categorize myself as being a prude haha. Super into and curious about rope play/shibari, dom/sub dynamic, *** equalling pleasure (masochist vibes), and threesome/unicorn exploration. All in all curious about others experiences and connecting with likeminded individuals as I continue to explore this part of myself in a safe and communicative way 💜
Female (28) San Diego, California
BigFluffyWoofffff
B***************f
Hey all, I’m 33, she/her. I’m here for the community side of kink: good conversation, skill-building, and meeting thoughtful people. My vibe: Curious, grounded, playful, and big on aftercare and clear expectations. What I’m into exploring: Rope, D/s dynamics, sensation play and power exchange. Hard limits: ***, ***s or needles. What I value most: Communication, kindness, emotional intelligence, and people who respect a “no” without sulking.
Female (33) San Diego, California
Girl6Knicks
G*********s
**YOUR PLACE** **I DO NOT HOST** **Must be tested prior to the play session** A Virgo pillow princess, ***ter, singer, dancer. Def a triple threat in the arts with a clown aura. I love sociology and Afrocentric culture specifically Black feminist (womanist) theory. No unsolicited sexual messages/photos or harassment. I don’t need you to degrade me as a compliment. You will be blocked. I don’t do FFM or couple play. Threesomes are reserved for MMF only. BEMA ( Brandon Kyle Goodman) Body : Kissed and licked in the ear, neck, and forehead, brush inner thighs, playful feet and leg entanglement, rubbing of each others legs on one another, light blowing on pussy, dick slaps on clitoris, laying on chest, nipple licking, fingering, edging,moaning out loud and in my ear. Cuddling is a must! Environment: Big bed,kitchen,garage,sofa,and hotel. Cold room temp: 66-69 Mood: Moody/dark lighting,Sade/R&B/con-tempo R&B playlist/yacht rock/trip hop Accouterment : Kiwi vibrator, lube, blindfold,ribbon or soft fabric for arm/hand restraints, and cock ring.
Female (25) San Diego, California
ShanJan
S*****n
Currently married to my husband of 20 years. We've opened our relationship to spice things up. Don't be afraid to message me💕💕
Female (50) San Diego, California

New personal ads in San Diego

curves-for-days
Too much to ask?

I just want to be someone’s number one priority. Is that too much to ask for?
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 42 years ● 30km around USA Coppell
pawzzval
send vids of you having a real good time~

im a unloyal gf looking for fun x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA New York
flambeknickers
Mmmm feeling super switchy tonight

I’ve gone from wanting someone to suck and play with my breasts to wanting someone to slap their big, long, thick cock around my face and all over my big heaving tits before fucking them, letting me suck the precum from them and then being railed haaaarrrrd whilst being called a slut, whore, and at times …a good girl…
Kinky Date ● 26 to 56 years ● 25km around UK Ludlow
flambeknickers
Looking for someone to suck my big nipples

Right now I’m ideally looking for a strong man to come and let his softer side show whilst sucking on my big breasts…before things maybe go further… but I don’t mind if you’re a couple or a lone woman who would like the same treatment but from me 😉
Kinky Date ● 18 to 54 years ● 25km around UK Ludlow
dover829130
Sense of humor is important to me.

I am looking for someone emotionally available, who knows what they want is ready to find and build their future with their partner. Let's elevate each other and make some great memories along the way.I’m simple and easy going woman as well a man who value a good woman
BDSM Play Partner ● 54 to 80 years ● 495km around USA Brooklyn
JBby123
Message me

Sat here in bed getting all horny and nobody is talking to me… :( someone change that 👅
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Colchester
bbwbella
Looking for Native American men

I’m part native and seeking friends or more :)

I promise it’s not a fetish, I like all types of people. Just never met any other natives lol.
Kinky Date ● 24 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Los Angeles
mandy1999
Need a daddy dom

I'm into ddlg. Really need to explore it with someone well versed on the entire subject. Must be a daddy dom. Must be into ***. Must want a full regression little girl. Must host. I can't.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 75km around USA Macon
pissslut
I want to be your human urinal

Please fill all my holes with your *** and let me swallow it down. 30F
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 50 years ● 60km around USA Nashville
jesd7
Any guys round Dublin

Just wanna try some group fun
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Ireland Dublin 11
Anansi11
Looking for a regular play partner

I'm looking for someone with the ability to meet up once a week for play. This will occur on a Saturday or Sunday, once a week.

-must be able to host
-must be experienced in BDSM
-must have confidence and the ability to hold a conversation
-I'm frequently tested and expect the same
-Absolutely must be local
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 45 years ● 45km around USA Norwalk
nessav
Join me & my sugar daddy?

Looking for a kinky girl to share with my soft dom sugar daddy. His fantasy is getting deepthroated and rimmed at the same time... yum. If you're fit & fun you'll be our type ❤️❤️ ask me anything!!
NSA ● 22 to 34 years ● 65km around USA Chicago
AnonymousOtter
Threesome anyone?

I’m open to singles but love a nice couple to get comfortable with and spend the night talking and having a lot of fun. I’m very submissive but can also be a switch with a woman. Don’t be afraid to message❤️the closer the better
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Scott
cnclover22
need to be broken… hard

anyone that can break me and make me hurt while i beg you to stop
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around USA Costa Mesa
pinkunicorn23
Exploring fantasies..

I’ve always been sexual, passionate, etc. but never considered MFM before in my life. All of a sudden I can’t stop thinking about one of having a bull & cuck. Also open to other women but really wanna explore the first 2 things I mentioned. Any takers? 🥹
Kinky Date ● 25 to 50 years ● 150km around USA Raleigh
bigdicklover
Little space

I need a DADDY n a sippy cup of juice
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Alexandria
cinnamonapplesauce
Socializing

I'm just looking to engage with like-minded people and get out of my comfort zone. The more local the better. Looking for friends in my area that have similar interests and or are engaged in the community. Or just let me know of any events. Trying to get out there more and be more social.😁
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 24 to 80 years ● 245km around USA Leesburg
urdreamkinkxxx
Feet pic

I wanna show off my cute feet
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 50 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Gilroy
baabyydee
New to the game

New to the scene and looking for sex clubs or even my fantasy of glory holes where I can enjoy with my partner. Please let me know of any in the LA/OC area 😘😛🔥🥵😈
Club Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 205km around USA Spring Valley Lake
Babygirl_Smurf
Cuddle and movie dates wanted; hosting

Looking to host for some cuddle and movie/gaming dates. I'm missing human connection rn and feeling touch deprived in the most vanilla of ways. Just looking for someone to cuddle with, maybe smoke some 420 while we game or watch something on the tv. Located in Petawawa Ontario.
Kinky Date ● 30 to 56 years ● 25km around Canada Petawawa
thiccgirlygirl
Daddy🩷

Want a little girl of your own with plenty of fun cute adorable adventures to be had and a cute little pouty lip🤭
Kinky Date ● 28 to 50 years ● 500km around USA Tiverton
AllyL
A specific roleplay

I’m looking for someone who has seen the anime D.Gray-Man. I’m wanting to roleplay kind of like an isekai where I’m transported into that world but I’m mostly wanting to roleplay with the character Kanda. I’m looking for a slow burn situation.
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Miami
brattygurl420x
Anyoneee

I just wanna be someone’s spoiled brat little wifey.
I wanna cook awesome food, keep the house lookin cute like the inside of a genie bottle and live with tons of love and fun.
and I have *** and might want more with the right man.
be groovy or leave man ✌🏻 😋
Bonus points if you like total power over me and daddy role lol.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Mullins

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